As 2024 draws to a close, the holiday season invites us to reflect deeply—not just on what we’ve done this year, but on who we truly are. Let’s take a moment to explore one of the most honest and profound questions: Is work what you do, or who you are?

WAKE UP: The Trap of Over-Identification with Work

Many of us, especially the 50+ generation, have spent decades building careers and identities around our professions. But when work defines who we are, transitions like retirement or career pivots can feel destabilising.

Harvard Professor Arthur Brooks describes this phenomenon beautifully in this article, noting how critical it is to separate self-worth from professional titles.

Take a moment this December to ask yourself:

• Who am I when I’m not at work?
• What values, passions, and relationships define me beyond my career?

SHAKE UP: Disrupt the Mindset Around Retirement

Retirement isn’t the end of productivity—it’s a redefinition. With an average of 30+ years beyond traditional work, it’s time to rewrite the narrative from “retiring” to rewiring.

Too often, we see retirement as a finish line. Instead, think of it as a bridge to:

• New passions or purpose-driven projects.
• Time to connect deeply with family, friends, and community.
• Opportunities for learning and personal growth.

The holidays are an ideal moment to challenge outdated retirement mindsets and reimagine what fulfillment and joy look like in this new phase of life.

THRIVE: Year-End Reflections and Action Points, the 3 R’s

Try taking these three steps to end the year with clarity and purpose:

Reflect

Use the holidays to connect with yourself. Journaling prompts like “What’s my next career step?” “What legacy do I want to leave?” or “What brings me joy outside of work?” can be transformational.

Reconnect

Strengthen your social and spiritual well-being by reaching out to colleagues, loved ones or engaging in holiday traditions that nourish your spirit.

Rewire

Begin setting intentions for 2025. Consider coaching, group discussions, or workshops to explore how you can thrive in this next chapter.

The end of the year is a time to reconnect with who you are at your core. Whether embracing retirement, considering a career pivot, or simply seeking balance, this season offers an opportunity to realign with what truly matters.

What steps will you take to thrive in 2025 and beyond?

We’d love to explore them together. Happy Holidays!